Miscellaneous Musings


19
Sep 11

Karma and a Winnipeg Fire and Safety Company

Want some proof of what comes around goes around?

Over the past few weeks we have been making some phone calls on behalf of one of our customers.  We were asked to call their suppliers to see if any of them would make contributions to this very worthy cause and we chose to help.

They have two suppliers on their list for “fire and safety” stuff – fire extinguisher sales and service.  I phoned one of the suppliers and before I could finish the pitch, I was cut off with “Let me stop you right there.  We get asked to make donations to our customers all the time and we choose not to.”  The tone was confrontational and the feeling it gave me was not pleasant.  Many of the other suppliers choose not to give, but none were rude about it and many took extra care to listen, express support for the cause and take into consideration that someone had volunteered their time to make the phone call.

When I called the competitor company, the reception was warm, the tone was friendly and I left the call knowing exactly where I would go if we ever needed anything to do with fire and safety.

Last Thursday, three days after the phone calls and out of the blue, the fire inspector visited IBEX Headquarters for the first time in 11 years.  We now know that our fire extinguishers need to be serviced every year, not every decade, and funny – we know exactly where we are going to get the help we need.


21
Jul 11

Friends

I had an experience yesterday that made me question a friend. I thought that maybe one of my friends was not as true as I has always assumed. Maybe his aloofness has always made me try too hard and assume things that were not actually there.

During the mental gymnastics of thinking about whether this person was a true friend, I was forced to compare his actions and attitude to the actions and attitude of others friends. The stunning realization I had was that I have some great friends who are putting it all out there for me and I am sometimes being the aloof one, taking them for granted and playing coy with their support and friendship. I am often chasing the next great thing without fully appreciating those around me.

I am going to thank each and every one of them the next time I see them and try to be my true self with them every chance I get.


29
May 10

The Last Handhold?

Funny.  As I walked my kids home from school this past Friday, I was thinking about my new blog.  What would the first post be about?  How would I communicate my passion for what we are doing at IBEX?  Do I really want to do a blog?  As I was thinking these thoughts I felt a hand slide into mine.  It was my nine year old son Aidan’s hand.  The blog thoughts slipped away completely and I thought about whether this would be the last time this ever happened.  It happens rarely enough as it is.  Nine year old boys are into many things and holding the old man’s hand is not high on that list.  I enjoyed the moment, I engaged with my son and after a few minutes I felt those fingers that I love so much gently and naturally slip away from mine.

I have thought about that moment in the context of my life almost non-stop ever since.  What does it really matter what I do at work?  It is what I do at home that really matters.  Why put so much energy into building a different kind of workplace for myself and the rest of the Herd when I should be focused on being a great husband and father?  Ultimately I don’t know the right answer to this question.  I do believe though that every person wants to succeed as an individual and as a member of society.  I want to build a company that attracts people committed to both and helps them do it in ways they never imagined.